How sticky and sweet a secret is, enveloping its keepers in a cushy interiority and slicking both parties in a fine film of knowing.
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True beauty is haunting. It is not simply that which is seen. It is an experience, varying in volume from a sweet and gentle tenderness to a distortion that shakes you to your core.
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Roleplaying creates an entire universe in which I am God and my play partner is human, but we are equally co-collaborators of this constructed cosmos.
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I recently had the pleasure of being interviewed by Petit Mort Magazine about my opinions on tools and organization for their summer 2021 issue! Read on for an excerpt and to see photos from my feature.
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I am so happy and lucky to be alive, and I owe much of it to the play partners, friends, sex working and queer family that I currently have in my life.
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This past tour to California was an absolute dream
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“I felt like I had created a digital self so precise that it detached from me and gained its own autonomy, a sort of Pygmalion miracle if Pygmalion had crafted his sculpture after his own image.”
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This year has been an absolute delight, full of hedonistic pleasure and challenging firsts. Reaching my birthday has given me another opportunity to reflect on what I’ve accomplished, as well as set intentions for the coming year.
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While finishing up the last of school and graduating from my Masters’ program, I dove headfirst into organizing and preparing for the following events.
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“While my mouth is open, he gets lost among my teeth, sliding down my throat, not being able to escape my mouth.” In her podcast, Why Are People Into That? Tina Horn helps me articulate how cannibalism flips consumption inside out.
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“The fact that they are happily and joyfully paying for my time shows how much they respect me and care for me and my reality as a human being, not just me as a fantasy object.”
Can you be truly altruistic as a submissive? How does one authentically play as a professional?
“Your ability to show up for other people is dependent upon your ability to show up for yourself … I’ve given people everything, because doing that was so much easier putting the work in for myself, and facing and confronting the things that I needed to confront for me.”
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Desire and revulsion are two sides of the same dirty coin that BDSM shamelessly spends. Whoever said that cleanliness is close to Godliness was wrong. How could God be pristine?
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When you and I are able to provide a safe space for somebody to really connect to that part of themselves deep within, it allows them to understand themselves at a new level, and then be able to take it outside of that safe space and apply it to whatever they want. But a lot of times, people aren’t tested in that way, so they don’t really know how strong they can really be.
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“The passage of My birthday offers Me the perfect opportunity to reflect on the BDSM-related accomplishments of this last year, and to set intentions for the following year.”
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What is tribute? It is an homage to the past, purchasing an hour of decorated time, of proximity to a body that housed at one point a unique moment of conception of an idea; how do you translate degradation physically, lyrically, or visually in a way that’s never been done before?
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“When I hear the word ‘agreement,’ it’s really a question of values. A value is what you hold in high regard. With an agreement, there can be some play; you can decide those values in that time and that space, and then interact according to those values. “
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